My Friend Elzi

I was shopping today. With a good friend of mine, actually. Or no. She's.. it's complicated. If I had to name one girl who was most alike as Becky from Shopaholic, it would be her. Let's name her.. Elizi. She's petite, would be tomboy if wasn't all that girly and into fashion. She's nice. Truly is. Like everyone is, not that horrific like many girls can be. Just that she uses more money than anyone else. I mean on trendy things. Which look mostly ok on her, not that special but still. And then, sometimes she has this horrific idea about looking unique..

Nah, anyways today we were with her in H&M and few other places. I swear, she tried nearly every single thing in there, and in the end called her mother to ask for money. I mean.. Okay, I could understand she pays everything on her own, but when she was disapproved by her mother (who was actually really stressy about Elizi being in stores at all) ofcourse she was not allowed to buy anything. Promise, this is not a lie: she began to cry. To freakin' CRY! I sat near her, in the middle of H&M and thought about every single second I had spend in changing rooms waiting for her, so she would cry refused in the middle of everything. She has her birthday in few weeks, and I won't probably see her until summer. I made her the present she wanted: I bought it for her. I know, shouldn't have done it. But c'mon, what was I supposed to do? Stand up and say: 'honey, sorry, I will just buy these things now, then I shall be off with you where ever you want to go'. No way.

I was also listening today to Kid British. I absolutely love their music! It has some twist in it, and every song is always like a new experience. What I like most about them, would probable be their funny song Elizabeth and how they change every time they make a new song.

Aand I bought some things, too. :) I probably will consider about putting some pictures of them here..

Maybe someday, for I am now not ready for that.

Ray Bradbery and Kurt Vonnegut

Hi again.

Today in school, we had a "Happy Day". Yes, we need in our school something like that. Anyway, I signed myself to some random things- playing with kids, some belly dance and other activities.

First, Playing with kids. They are really sweet, that's not the matter. Just that after three hours with small kids even a three years younger guy looks wonderful and sexy. No, really.

Imagine this: they guy is half of my heigh, has long, red hair (even longer than I have). Plus, he is the little brother of a guy who is just a year older than I am. And is dating a girl who's freaking four years younger than I am. So when my time was over, and I had to say bye-bye to them all, I nearly freaking kissed him. And no offence to everyone, I just don't think that would have been such a good idea.

Belly dance, not that great. You know those situations, when you actually get a clap from everyone else, like 'gosh, you should start to do this professionally, you're the best!' but the same time you know you look just ridicilous, and there's no thing more idiotic.

That was my 'Happy Day'.

after school, I read how Fahrenheit 451 came to public. Playboy. Freaking Playboy. I have been thought that Playboy is 'readable only if you're blind, no one will respect you if you will read it, blaahblaahblaah'. So take that. Not only Kurt Vonnegut has been featured in the magazine, but also Vladimir Nabokov, Doris Lessing and John Irving.

I asked a guy I know, what is actually in Playboy. He answered nearly like this: "well. Firstly there are these.. pictures. Then, when men are already done with them, they watch, what else is in there. And they suddently realize they have hang all the nails in all their life. No, honey, not that I would read.. or subscribe the magazine.. Oh honey, I love your shoes!"

I actually want to know what other men would answer me. My dad started to laugh. (he thought it was a joke) when he understood that I was serious, he said I was thinking nonsence and blaahblaahblaah.

And I think I would maybe want to see a Playboy magazine now. What do they have in there?!

-Ellen

Fashion Tips and Blogs

Sorry, Elle (the magazine)

because this will be now a short summary of those "50 Tips from the Stylish on how to Shop The Highstreet". (given between the Elle April Issue) It was all amazing, but (and there is always a But!) I didn't like every single of those tips. So here is my summary of the best ones. (with my own comments)

01. Write a wish list

"At the beginning of every season, write a hit list of pieces and choose a palette to work with." Moriamo Oshodi, head of womenswear buying, Asos.

Make it even more: choose those textures you are ready to work with. If silk isn't your thing, and now in fashion, give it a chance, and if it still feels wrong, drop the whole idea.

02. Join the Insiders

"Log on to prshots.com where you can find images of the high-street stores' present and forthcoming collections. That way, you can go to each store with an item in mind." Susie Lau, aka fashion blogger Susie Bubble.

Try it. And even if you don't like- you will be probably the only one of your friends who knows what high-street is coming up with next.

03. Identify your Style Icons

Remember: you don't have to wear whole Audrey Hepburn- wibe, you will just have some inspiration with movies/pictures.

04. Invest in Classics

"A pair of elegant court shoes should be a wardrobe staple. My favourites this season are our taupe suede pointed courts with contrasting black patent toes- timeless." Annick Gorman, creative director, LK Bennett.

Think about those things you use every season, no matter what is the trend. Possibly a black, ruffled top or plain white summer dress? Invest in them, and no matter what, you can always be more trendy with adding some jewels.

05. Stay Hands Free

"Never take a handbag on a high-street mission- you need both hands to shop. Just shove a small compact mirror (so you can see how you look from all angles) and your credit card in your hand pockets." Lulu Kennedy, director, Fashion East

Totally true. When shopping, it is impossible to have a heavy backpack/purse in your hands. It will take all your concentration.

06. Chronicle your Wardrobe

"Go through your clothes to make sure you have all the basic foundation pieces you'll need to built your new-season wardrobe. Try on your purchases with your existing wardrobe and if they don't go with anything you already got, be prepared to take things back." Elika Gibbs, founder of wardrobe service Practical Princess

Maybe one of the smartest advices. Your basic is always your closet at this moment, so if the thing just doesn't fit in, you have to take it back. And "the not coolness of taking things back" is not a issue for a smart girl!

07. Get to know each store's strenght

"Gap is brilliant for basic; Cos is a great place to buy a nice pair of city shorts. " Erin Mullaney, buying director, Browns.

As long as you don't dress from one store only, you will look great. Just imagine: a Lacoste t-shirt, shorts, headband and shoes. Can you get more clishe?

08. Customize

"I always like to customize my high-street purchases by raising hemlines, turning t-shirts into dresses .. that way I know that my clothes will always look unique." Ben Grimes, model and designer.

It's not that hard. All you need is inspiration. And Time.

09. Be Intrepid

"Shop outside your comfort zone- it helps you avoid buying the same thing. By trying things you didn't consider "your style", you'll discover something new and add another dimension to your look." Susie Wong, Bargainista Fashionista blogger

Just one tip: if you are from a small town with the norm of someway not expressing yourself through clothes, don't go extreme with the first time walking outside. (the rumors will kill your happiness at first anyway)

10. Mix and Match

"Always buy basics like cool tank tops and leggings from the high street. You can layer them under bodices and mix them up with designer and vintage pieces for a really individual look." Annette Felder, designer, Felder Felder

Also look for cheap jewels, and nice head bands.

11. Timing is Everything

"shop mid-morning on a Monday. It's the time when the shops tend to be restocking the floor, so you can usually find a much better selection of sizes."Margo Stilley, actress

Totally true- ever shopped in stores before noon? The assistants at shops much more friendly, and smiling. Go and try! Ps. if you should sit at that time in school/work/sth else, give yourself a well worked break at that time you want, and go shopping. Or skip few classes every now and then. No one can concentrate oneself on boring maths/work, if they are thinking about shopping.

12. Be Decisive

"As indulgent and consumerist as it sounds, never think twice about a high-street purchase if it fits like a dream and gets you excited. The fast stock turnover in shops means you won't find it again it you want." Carrie Gorman, acting web editor, ELLEUK.com

Just think about how many more great purchases would you have, if you hadn't thought that time about everything else, and not walked to the cashier. Depressed? Should be.

13. Accessorise

"Accessories are a good way to buy into the trends of the season, whatever your shape, lifestyle and budget. With more high-street retailers expanding their ranges, the choise is ever-incraising." Belle Robinson, co-owner of Jigsaw.

It is the cheapest and fastest way to look trendy at the time. (and you can always throw the shit in garbage after using just twice- it has by then payed off. No. Just kidding. Customizing accessories is great. I, for example, never throw mine away- they are great memos and add nice touch to my wall.

14. Stick to your budget

"To prevent yourself over-shopping, give yourself a budget, take out the exact cash and leave your credit card safely at home." Stacey Duguid, executive fashion editor, ELLE

Stacey knows what she's talking. Ever had nightmares at the last week of the month, just about your Visa overdue? Save yourself and be happy sleeping with not eating just soup the last weeks. DO as the tip says. And don't borrow money from your friends/family to do shopping, you will still have to give it back someday.

15. Don't be sexist

"Men's departments are a great place to have a rummage. H&M men's collections have some really cool pieces with great details. They're cut more narrowly than a lot of menswear, so they're easier to wear as unisex. H&M is a good place to start if you've never worn menswear before." Donna Wallace, accessories editor, ELLE

And save your boyfriends nerves- apparently they don't like if you dig like a goldhunter in their closets. Why so?

16. Staple it

"Five key staples that never go out of fashion are a really good soft jersey-cotton tee, a great pair of Converse, a classic black stiletto, a black cashmere V-neck and a white shirt, all of which you can find on the high-street at affordable prices." Bonnie Rakhit, market and merchandising editor, ELLE

Check if you have these.. And be sure they fit perfectly. My day saviour is usually jeans (perfect fit!), good and comfy pair of shoes (no matter if they are stilettos or converse) and the cashmere V-neck. Comfy, and some think boring. But a saviour of the day!

17. Pick your moment

"Never try shoes at the end of a long day on the high street because your feet will have swollen and you could end up buying the wrong size." Sarah Fox, press and marketing executive, Bertie and Pied a Terre

Why didn't they teach this in the first class?! I would have spared many nerves of myself and other people just knowing this all my life. And they say they teach vice things in school.

18. Final Thought..

"Don't ever shop in the high street when you're hungover, when there is full moon or when tyou have PMT. This will impair your judgement- guaranteed." Mademoiselle, columnist, ELLE

Lock yourself (or at least all your money resources and credit cards) at home when those three happen to be at the same time. Or actually, if you really want to go to therapy for the next 57 years, be my guest.

and one thing: even if you hate some fashion bloggers, check few blogs to know what people not in your town wear, Can be refreshing sometimes. If you want to go really outlandish-check "extreme lands" (by which I mean small, not well known lands. Supricing, they have many bloggers.)

-Ellen.

School life

This one will be just complaining about my life now.

School life sucks. It is not possible to understand how the teachers enjoy the feeling on our faces when we realize that all the tests are on the next few weeks. Oh dear. And I will have to write two tests on the same subject next two days. Like I didn't have any other life.

.. I guess the teachers are right. I don't- have any kind of life nowadays.

I found our old camera today. (as I was "learning for some tests.." you wish.) It is so old.. if I am exact, it should be 12,5 years old now. And for few years (or more, actually) no one has taken any photos with it. An old Canon. And so sweet! I am thinking about starting to use it and that I will put here my first picture.

.. Just that I can't tell my friends about anything, for they might come up this blog in some days- gosh I hate this.

-And now I should really not hang out here, only because I will fail anyways the test.

-Ellen.